Comments on: A story from the dating trenches http://www.apartment2024.com/2005/06/30/a-story-from-the-dating-trenches/ Food, family and synchronicity, in mostly equal parts Wed, 20 Aug 2008 02:35:19 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.6 By: Swamy http://www.apartment2024.com/2005/06/30/a-story-from-the-dating-trenches/#comment-172 Swamy Fri, 01 Jul 2005 16:31:00 +0000 http://www.apartment2024.com/?p=77#comment-172 Hiya ! Been a while since I swung by here , good to see you are having a ball with this blog thing ! :) Well, about this bloggette, ya, it is very appealing and invigorating to establish a spiritual/intellectual connection with someone, but it'd be like walking on air unless you can also establish a mutual social/material/history-of-experience connection. I think exchaning too many emails is going to push you quickly to form an intellectual/spiritual connection before you have set any fooundation for it to thrive on. It is beautiful in its own right, but can be somewhat lopsided. Having said that, maybe your guy just had a bad day/recent experience, and was being sceptical or tired. Maybe another chance (or two) will be a good idea. It certainly is going to be hard finding a guy who liked what the beep ! :) Hiya ! Been a while since I swung by here , good to see you are having a ball with this blog thing ! :) Well, about this bloggette, ya, it is very appealing and invigorating to establish a spiritual/intellectual connection with someone, but it’d be like walking on air unless you can also establish a mutual social/material/history-of-experience connection. I think exchaning too many emails is going to push you quickly to form an intellectual/spiritual connection before you have set any fooundation for it to thrive on. It is beautiful in its own right, but can be somewhat lopsided.

Having said that, maybe your guy just had a bad day/recent experience, and was being sceptical or tired. Maybe another chance (or two) will be a good idea.

It certainly is going to be hard finding a guy who liked what the beep ! :)

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