Friday, December 19th, 2008...11:39 pm
Engaged
So Scott and I got engaged tonight. It wasn’t a surprise for me, because I designed the ring and I’ve never been particularly good with surprises. We made it official in the courtyard at City Hall, in the glow of the Christmas lights. Despite the lack of proposal ambush, we are both still totally delighted.
I’ve never been a girl who has dreamed about what her wedding was going to be like, but I’ve always been excited about the prospect of the engagement ring (what can I say, I like jewelry). What I finally decided to go with is the ring(s) you see above. I was inspired by this ring on Etsy and really liked the idea of a set of stacking rings for the engagement/wedding situation. However, the way it’s turned out, I’m wondering if it wouldn’t just be better to use the second ring with the two diamonds as the wedding band. For the time being, I’m wearing both of them together, to see if I can’t make this dream of a two-part engagement ring a reality.
One of the cooler parts of the ring(s) is that the diamonds all belonged to my grandmother. She was something of a jewelry collector and so the smaller diamonds were once a pair of small stud earrings and the larger diamond is one half of another pair of diamond earrings that my grandfather bought her about 25 years ago. It’s nice to know that she had some part in this very significant jewelry. I know she would have loved these rings.

31 Comments
December 20th, 2008 at 1:15 am
Congratulations to both of you! The ring design (and the story behind it and the stones) is brilliant.
December 20th, 2008 at 8:35 am
I loved reading the story behind your ring. It’s incredibly special to have your grandmother’s stones. What a wonderful idea, and congratulations again!
December 20th, 2008 at 9:25 am
Wow!! Congratulations! Beautiful story behind the rings. This is wonderful news. I’m very happy for both of you.
December 20th, 2008 at 11:36 am
Congrats Marisa! I had a feeling the full story would be here after reading the very abbreviated version over on Blankbaby….
December 20th, 2008 at 12:50 pm
Congratulations! That is so exciting! I love your rings and I love the family stories behind it.
December 20th, 2008 at 1:42 pm
Mazel tov.
December 20th, 2008 at 4:18 pm
That’s a beautiful ring and a beautiful story. Congratulations to you and Scott, you are a such great couple and I wish you for you more of what you already seem to have, a life full of laughter, good food and many books.
December 20th, 2008 at 4:57 pm
Woo hoo! Congratulations! I also heard Scott got a new job, so it is all sorts of exciting right now, huh? I was wondering how long before this happened…
December 20th, 2008 at 5:34 pm
Thanks for sharing the story behind the rings (I wasn’t sure if there were two…). Very cool that you used your grandmother’s stones. Love to you both!
December 20th, 2008 at 9:54 pm
Hooray & congratulations!!
December 20th, 2008 at 10:36 pm
Yippee-that is terrific news! Gorgeous ring and Ajayi and I wish you and Scott all the best.
December 20th, 2008 at 11:51 pm
Congratulations! This is a really beautiful ring (or rings)!
December 21st, 2008 at 3:21 pm
Marisa – congrats x a million. the rings are beautiful!!
December 21st, 2008 at 3:49 pm
Congratulations to both of you! I’m so happy for you. The
ring(s) are beautiful and the story behind them is beautiful too. Any idea when you will wed?
December 21st, 2008 at 5:32 pm
Congratulations to you and Scott!
December 22nd, 2008 at 12:44 am
YAY!!
PARTY!!
now i need a date to my big sister’s wedding… crap.
December 22nd, 2008 at 10:28 am
Mazel tov! Congratulations to you both!
Gorgeous rings!!!!!!!!
December 22nd, 2008 at 2:07 pm
Congratulations to you both! I’m so happy for you.
The rings are sooo pretty!
December 22nd, 2008 at 5:13 pm
So happy for you!
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December 22nd, 2008 at 9:07 pm
I love your ring!!! I am already married but I may use your design for an anniversary (maybe my 10th).
December 23rd, 2008 at 10:02 am
Congratulations! When I first saw the rings I was taken with the design but after reading the history of the stones it makes the rings much more beautiful.
December 23rd, 2008 at 3:22 pm
so coollllllll!!!!!
im very happy for you both and wish you all the best.
i broke up with sandy and im moving to florida!!!
im down here now, found a cute little house, its 80 degrees and sunny and im coming home after new years, packing up, saying bye to the kids who are in college and dont really care anyway, and moving me and bubba to paradise. we are gonna be beach bums.
by the way delphina tells me a lot of her fellow students at CIA read you on slashfood.
isnt that cool?
December 23rd, 2008 at 3:34 pm
Congratulations! I am so happy for you both, and here are huge wishes for many, many joyous and love filled years of happiness ahead! Happy Holidays!
December 25th, 2008 at 6:38 am
Awesome, lovely ring, lovely news – Scott is a lucky lucky man.. Enjoy!
December 26th, 2008 at 1:52 am
Congratulations! I love the rings – both of you deserve the best. Thanks for sharing. Happy Holidays!
December 26th, 2008 at 11:27 am
Wonderful!
I am pleased for the both of you.
December 26th, 2008 at 7:23 pm
Congratulations! I’m so excited for you both! And looking forward to seeing you (and the ring) in person next month!
December 28th, 2008 at 2:24 am
Congratulations!!
December 29th, 2008 at 7:30 pm
What wonderful news! Congratulations to you both!
December 30th, 2008 at 9:15 pm
That is stunning and gorgeous. Congratulations!
December 31st, 2008 at 2:00 pm
Yay!!! Congratulations and thank you for making an honest man of Scott
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